Researchers at Stanford University published a study showing that the most persistent multi-taskers perform badly in a variety of tasks. As an intuitive I agree with the results of this study and see this from a different perspective. I have observed the importance of focus in achieving success and multitasking gets in the way of that because it scatters our energy and attention.
To those of us who have always been proud multi-taskers this a big blow!
Effect of Multi-Tasking
When we focus on our goals and the essential steps to get there we find success. When our attention is divided, as in the case of multitasking, two things happen:
* Our energy is divided so no one goal has enough energy to manifest fully
* The vision of our success is diminished because we have other things in our mind’s eye as well
Importance of Focus
As a business intuitive I have also observed the effect of multitasking on the ability to create success. When we focus on our goals, our business plan, are not distracted and our attention is on this vision then our life force energy is not divided in multiple directions. With focus we create success.
In the end we want to see our vision of success clearly, know the steps to get there then focus on our vision and take these steps. The more focused we are the more successful we become.
Being grounded and centered in ourselves helps us to limit the urge to multi-task. Try this intuitive exercise every time you feel the need or find yourself multitasking rather than focusing on your goals.
Intuitive Exercise
Find a place to sit. Close your eyes. Take a deep breath and release. Repeat the breathing until you feel yourself begin to relax. Bring your attention and awareness onto yourself. Begin to imagine the most important goal you are trying to achieve right now. See it or imagine it.
Imagine bringing your energy and awareness off anything and everything that is grabbing your attention. Focus on your goal.
See the steps to achieve this goal. Take a deep breath and release. Decide the step you want to focus on right now. Open your eyes. Take a deep breath. Now focus that step.
Best,
Kay
There are specific techniques for grounding and being centered. Contact me if you are interested in learning more about meditation.
Yes, I mean fix the door. When your business is slowing down you can look for all the logical reasons why that is. Sometimes the cause has nothing to do with your business but with another aspect of your life. From an intuitive perspective our business is not separate from us. It is part of who we are and what we are creating. Intuitively I see that every aspect of our lives, our relationships, health, home, family, etc. affects the other.
This could be a very long blog but let’s focus on one aspect. The phone has stopped ringing, new contracts are slow to materialize, you are doing everything right from a business perspective so what’s in the way. As a business intuitive I hear this question often. My first suggestion is to look around at your life. Where in your life are you not in communication with someone? What in your house is bothering you? What is broken that you have not taken the time to fix it? How are you doing personally, emotionally, and spiritually? Is there something in your personal life that you have not taken care of?
This idea is not so far fetched. One client, John, president of large investment firm, saw a sudden drop in investments. During our consultation I saw that he was having a difficult time communicating with his 20 yr. daughter. The energy in his space said “Don’t communicate!” This energy was effecting at work. No one was communicating with him. I suggested he contact his daughter to clear their communication. He did and coincidentally his business clients started calling again.
Another client, Michael, who owns a chain of retail stores, saw his sales plummet. During his consultation I saw that something was broken in his home. He acknowledged that the supports for his deck were in disrepair but he had not gotten around to having them fixed. The energy of things being broken was in his space. Michael did not quite buy the idea that his deck had anything to do with the sales in his stores but just in case, he went ahead and had his deck repaired. After the work was completed he called to say that he did not know what affect this would have on his business but he sure felt a lot better personally. He had no idea the weight (the energy) this had created for him. As you may guess sales went back up as well. There are no coincidences.
So take a look around at your work, home, relationships, health, etc. Notice the one thing that most weighs on you and take care of it. Then take care of the next thing that weighs on you and so on. For a business to be successful we have to keep the energy moving in all aspects of our lives.
One of the best times to use your intuition is when you cannot decide, the answers you are looking for are not obvious or your find yourself successfully defending both sides of your own argument! You have been thinking, discussing it with others and still you cannot tell the right way to go or which decision to make. This is the time to stop thinking! Sometimes logic cannot provide our answers either because we are not neutral to the issue, our own thoughts and emotions cloud our thinking. Sometimes we cannot decide because of the pressures from other people or competing interests.
I was on the way back from a salon at the home of a Silicon Valley executive and his wife. My friend had run into one of her clients at the salon last month and again this day. She was very confused how she should interact with this very high profile client in this informal and somewhat personal event. I listened as she explained all the options she could think of. It was clearly a professional challenge that could have huge financial impact. She was confused, conflicted and worried. What if she approaches him the wrong way? What if she reads his communication incorrectly? What if…. She was wearing herself out.
A client of mine was in a similar state of confusion. She is transitioning in her career, sees a number of choices, can argue each of them convincingly only to confuse herself more. She thought, argued, discussed all to no avail. She could not decide and could not find a logical solution. This was creating great stress.
These scenarios are very common. The specifics may be different but each of us has been in a situation where all the logic in the world was not going to give us the answer. For me, as a business intuitive, answers to these situations are easily found by opening to our intuition. Using intuition is a way of gaining perspective and finding enough separation to see more clearly.
Here is a simple intuitive exercise you can use when you are confused or cannot decide.
Find a time and place to sit and quiet yourself.
Close your eyes, breathe deeply and begin to release all the effort you are experiencing. Relax and release.
Bring your attention and your awareness inward, behind your eyes. Breathe deeply and release.
Begin to clear your mind. Try to stop thinking so that you can open to your intuition.
Simply open your awareness. Begin to notice, see, listen and know intuitively.
Once you are quiet, imagine seeing a symbol out in front of you. See it or imagine it with your minds eye . I suggest a rose but any symbol will work.
Now imagine placing your question in that symbol. This keeps your from thinking.
Without thinking open to what you see, hear and know.
If you are able to follow these steps you will get your answer and you will know.
We all want to be successful. We think through and create a very grounded professional or business plan then work that plan everyday. So why don’t things do as planned? When we assume that it is all beyond our control we are dead wrong! Opening to our intuition allows to see beyond what is obvious and visible to find these answers. There are no coincidences.
For example, everyday our experiences create responses and reactions whether they are good or bad. These experiences create thoughts, ideas, emotions, etc. that may or may not support our plan. Things hang with us. We hold onto things. Things stick with us. These are all familiar terms that describe the effect of our daily experiences.
When we carry anything from one day to the next it becomes part of us and the fabric of our life. This is true for energies that we enjoy as well as those that we don’t. A bad meeting, conversation or phone call can stick with us, influence our thinking and set us off course. Often this is all happening our awareness of the effect the energy is having on our success.
One of my clients had a very difficult conversation with one of his clients this week. I saw that if he held the energy of this conversation in his space it would destroy the contract. On the other hand if he cleared the concepts and energies this experience stimulated for him then he had the opportunity to re-set his communication and agreement with his client.
These kinds of experiences are part of doing business which is why, as a business intuitive, I encourage all my clients to make meditation part of their daily business plan. In meditation you find a place of quiet to review yesterday and today. You become aware of the energy and pictures you are holding onto and will get in the way of your goals and your plan for your business. Once you are aware you can decide to release anything that does not serve you. Finally, you can reset and recreate your vision for today, the week and your success.
Try this for yourself. If you are not sure how to meditate join me for an online meditation any Monday.
Do you find your time taken with responding to one thing after another? Do you feel that stuff keeps happening to you and you wonder what is next? Who is creating all of this? Successful business owners and professionals know this well.
As a business intuitive I offer an intuitive perspective. We each create our own reality and can create whatever we want. When we don’t create then things will keep happening. It is our choice to create our reality or just experience what’s out there.
I know this is hard to wrap your head around because our whole lives we have been taught to see life from an atheist perspective. From this perspective everything that exists is, for the most part, beyond our control. To be successful a change in thinking and perspective is required. Success happens when we embrace being the creator of our reality.
When we turn our heads around and change our thinking we can change everything. You can begin by imaging how you would create your life if you understood yourself to be the creator. A creator, what did you have in mind? I don’t mean the fantasies we all have. The real question is what would you like to be, do and have.
Try the following intuitive exercise to experience yourself as a creator. If this works for you then use it for other aspects of your life.
Intuitive Exercise: Find a quiet place and take the time to go within. Meditation is a great way to do this. A quiet space of contemplation will do.
Close your eyes and be aware of gathering your attention and your awareness onto yourself. Breathe and relax.
Now be aware of one issue in your life that is not working for you. Stop thinking about it and instead imagine your preferred solution or vision of this issue. Imagine it in your minds-eye. Imagine seeing the outcome in a new way?
Do not think of solutions. Just imagine a different scenario. See it intuitively. Keep imagining until you can clearly see your preferred vision of the situation.
In this process you will notice thoughts, concepts and emotions you have and can let go of in order for your preferred vision to take hold. Breathe and release.
Keep looking, breathing and imaging until you see it clearly. When you can see the situation in the way you would like it play out then your meditation is done! Your problem has been solved. Watch for the evidence of this with great enthusiasm.
If you were unable to see or imagine you preferred outcome there is energy in you about the issue. Let me know if you would like further insight into this.
When I was growing up, I loved the idea of a miracle. My favorite saying was, “It’s a miracle!” I sought out opportunities to find a miracle big or small. Now I don’t subscribe to the idea very much. So what happened between then and now? I learned that those so-called miracles were actually created by us. A miracle used to be a magical idea because I believed that something outside of all of us created it – something God like. Well, I have no argument with God but I am fully aware that we have the free will to create or not create at our choosing.
When we have a strong vision, a sense of determination and the belief that it can happen it does. We call something a miracle when we don’t recognize our part in creating it. How can we become more capable creators when we don’t recognize our creations?
It is easy to take credit for creations that take sweat and tears, effort and exhaustion. We are less willing to recognize our creative role when we something manifests out of sheer vision and will without all the physical effort. That is a very limited perspective on our ability to create and our awareness of ourselves.
One of my clients called this morning to tell me how incredibly overjoyed she was at her success in creating exactly what she wanted professionally. She was fully aware that she was the creator of the miracle. It was a miracle to her because a few short months ago she could not imagine creating a career step from a well-paying high level corporate job that she hated to being a professor at the university of her choosing and in demand as a speaker that included her passion for travel. A few months ago she had more reasons for why it could not happen.
This woman decided to try the techniques I teach in this blog all the time. She created a vision of her success; decided it was happening now (not in the future) and took one step at a time toward her vision. It’s a miracle! Not that it happened but that she changed her thinking to realize she was the creator of her reality. When she decided that she changed her reality from creating out of fear to creating the reality, she truly wanted.
Here is the Intuitive Exercise she used: Find quiet time each day. Write your vision of your success. Notice your limits and fears but disregard them. Pay attention and focus on your vision every day. Every day let go of whatever competing concepts that you have. Be determined. Take steps.
Meditation is a good technique for visualizing your success. I invite you to join an online meditation each Monday.
Are you ready to make that phone call? Are you ready to make that call? As a business intuitive, I learn a great deal from my clients and sometimes I sigh when I see the mistakes business owners make. It is not because they don’t know better. These mistakes happen when they are not aware of what is going on within them at the time. All of us, business owners or not, become the effect of the energy of our life experiences. This then affects our work. We all have thoughts or mental image pictures that are re-stimulated and cause us to react in automatic and unconscious ways that may not serve us well. These are the times when we shoot ourselves in the foot.
Yesterday I was sitting in the office of one of my clients as he was making an important phone call to a potential client. My role was to be intuitive and observe this communication. My client, Fred (not his real name), was talking to a potential client by phone, discussing the scope of work, his fees, the needs of the project, etc. His client was a production company new at producing a web-based video and working with minors as talent. I saw intuitively that my client was not in the space to have this conversation. He had energy in this space that set the tone before he even made a phone call. His energy was set to educate. This was an entirely different space from developing a contract to provide talent for a production, which was the goal of a phone call.
I watched as Fred, clearly frustrated with this new producer, slowly but surely created an energy divide between himself and his potential client. This was not what he intended to do. The conversation ended with my client thinking, and conveying unconsciously that the production company did not know what they were doing. In this space, Fred did not convey how he could help them complete their project. He did not hear the producer’s concerns about the cost of his services, etc. The communication between the two was not accomplishing the goals for either side. In the end, the production company promised to get back to Fred at the end the day and they never did.
As an intuitive, I see this happen all the time. Quite simply Fred responded through his thoughts and feelings and not being focused on the goal for this conversation. This is more common than you would think. I know all of you are thinking that you would never do that or let that happen when, in fact, it happens all the time simply because we are not aware.
In working with business owners and professionals, I recommend a simple, intuitive exercise that raises your awareness. This exercise is designed for you to clear your thinking and the energy in your space before you make a call. I suggest this so that you don’t automatically and unconsciously talk through pictures, thoughts or energy in your space. We have all done this then thought, “I didn’t mean to say that.”
The second part of this intuitive exercise is taking the time to focus on your plan for the call. In this way, you create a clear mental image picture that guides your conversation to the outcome you are looking for.
Intuitive Exercise Before making that phone call close your door. Sit down. Take a deep breath. Close your eyes. Bring all your attention and awareness onto yourself. Notice how you are doing. Let go of whatever is on your mind. Decide how you want to be in the meeting. How do you want your potential client to experience you? What do you want to happen in this call? Begin to imagine the conversation in your mind’s eye. See it intuitively out in front of you. Don’t think! See it! Imagine it! When you can see or imagine this conversation exactly as you would like then you are ready. This could take five minutes, or an hour depending on how much energy you have about the call. How clear you are about the purpose of the call, how much energy you have in your space to clear and what other things are on your mind?
Don’t shoot yourself in the foot. It is worth the time to set the energy and your focus before you make that sales call.
Note: Regular meditation makes this easier helping you get into a routine of clearing your space and setting your goals. Online Meditation each Monday www.insightintuitiveconsulting.com
We have all heard about the power of visualization. This is not a new concept and can be a speedy way to achieve the goals you have for yourself and your company. As a business intuitive, I am aware that my most successful clients are those who have a strong vision of what they want to create. They are clear and certain. I have other clients that have an equally clear vision though they are not as successful. There are many factors I see intuitively that contribute to this, but there is one that is true of all of them.
My most successful clients have a clear vision. They also have a strong focus and determination to have their vision manifest. The second group has an equally strong vision though are not as focused, certain or determined. When I look at this from an intuitive perspective, I see men and women who have the ability to create a mental image picture ( vision) that is exactly what they want to create. It is similar to a drawing, photo or video that you hold in your mind’s eye.
The next step is harnessing and gathering your attention; focus and energy to bring to this vision into reality. Therein lies the difference between these two groups of professionals and business owners. One group brings their energy, focus to activate their vision. This changes it from a mental image picture to a physical reality. The picture is energized.
Sometimes it is easy to energize a vision and sometimes it takes great force. Have you ever heard the term “force of will” or “through force of will”? Both of these terms refer to a person’s ability to focus their life force energy on a vision to transform it into something physical. If I were a physicist, I might explain the effects of energy on a vision in terms one might use to describe quantum physics.
My best counsel on this would be to have a clear vision. This is not always as simple as it may sound. Meditation would help in this regard. Next bring your focus and attention directly on this vision. Do not be distracted. Take steps directed toward your vision. Finally, push yourself through any limits real or imagined. Repeat any of these steps as needed. Most importantly, don’t give up your goals!
Don’t shoot yourself in the foot. It is worth the time to set the energy and your focus before you make that sales call.
Success comes from knowing our vision (goal) and keeping that vision in our minds eye. As a business intuitive, my clients often ask about one decision or another I refer them back to their vision (goal) and whether this decision will help achieve those goals. Often we think one decision or the other is critically important loosing site of our vision.
We focus on the next decision when our vision makes us feel as if the changes to get there are too great. We feel overwhelmed by our vision. It is the magnitude of change it represents that causes us to be distracted. This is the point where we have to decide whether to stay committed to our vision or create a new one. Once we decide to commit to our vision then determination and focus are needed to push through the energy to get there.
Achieving goals is not for the faint of heart. If you have a vision, see it clearly in your mind’s eye. Don’t think about it. See it intuitively then focus your time, attention and commitment to achieving that vision. Breathe deeply. Allow fear. Allow change. Achieve your vision.
Recently several of my clients attended a workshop on fire walking. FIREWALKING! They were amazed at what they were able to do. It was beyond belief and beyond what they ever imagined was possible. Several said they used the intuitive tools to achieve their goal to fire walk including being centered, focused and having a clear vision of their goal.
As the story goes they went to try fire walking. Why would they do this? All of them were at a point in their professional career where they wanted to take a big step forward. They were ready for anything that would inspire the power and strength within to take that step.
They decided go to the workshop. Check it out. Promising themselves that they may or may not fire walk. They wanted to make sure they gave themselves a way out.
In the end they not only walked on hot coals, they also broke arrows pointed in their throat and even bent rebar in the same way. To accomplish these feats they were reminded to focus on the goal (break the arrow, bend the rebar and get to the other side of the coals). When they faltered the instructor reminded them not to focus on their fears but on their goals.
I could not have said it better. Nothing is impossible. Whatever can be imagined can be created.
So don’t try this at home but if you would like to try fire walking my clients recommend Sundoor.com.
OK so you own a business. Have you noticed that this is a journey in self-awareness? As a business intuitive one of my main roles is to work with business owners when they hit the wall! Every successful business owner experiences this periodically. From my intuitive perspective this is one of the best times for a business to take a step towards more success if the owner is willing to realize that their own personal limits are affecting their business. This may not always be logical but it is very spiritual and intuitive. From my experience in working with business owners I can tell those who will be successful. Half the clients I work with as a business intuitive call me when they are scared about their business succeeding or frustrated that it is not growing. I look at intuitively are the concepts they have about themselves and their business. I also look at the emotional charge on these concepts. If we acknowledge that our business is a physical manifestation of who we are then it is an easy transition from “My business is stuck” to “I am stuck”. What is not always apparent is what we are stuck on. Often the concepts and energies that are affecting us are very old or are buried deep in our space. To get the energy moving in our business often means getting the energy moving in our personal space. The owner of hedge fund found his fear of loosing his business related to his fear of being alone. Real estate investor hit the wall when she realized she could not let people be on her side and related this to hiding others from an alcoholic parent. A business consultant hit the wall when the grief of a 10-year-old divorce was re-stimulated. A high fashion model hit the wall because her parents feared loosing her. The list goes on. It is surprising how easy it is to recognize and move out of these fears but it does take the courage of self-awareness, determination and amusement. Yes, amusement. That is the top of another blog. Businesses that succeed include those where we are willing to have a personal journey to discover what limits our success. We may be aware of some of these concepts and some are unconscious and have an emotional charge. Taking the time to realize these concepts and clear the energy charge on these pictures will result in the energy moving in our business. When you hit the wall try this exercise. If all else fails don’t be afraid to get an intuitive consultation to see what’s within you that is affecting your success. Intuitive Exercise (meditation) Find a time when you can sit quietly for a while. Close our eyes. Breathe deeply and often. Let go of tension when you exhale. Imagine bringing all your attention and awareness in around you. Bring your attention off of your business, your family, and your life and focus your attention within. Breathe! Continue until you feel like you are centered in present time. Most importantly do not think! In this exercise you are going to open to your intuition so relax and image in your minds eye, visualize a symbol for your business. See it out in front of you. We do this so that you don’t think and open to your intuition. If you cannot see a symbol for your business pretend to. The next step is important. You will want to pay attention to the very first thing that comes to mind. Do not require or expect that it is logical. Logic will alter the response. Your intuition is the first response. The next immediate thought is analytical and not true. Relax. Focus within. See the symbol of your business or goal in front of you. Now ask silently the question you have. Notice your first fleeting impression. There is your answer. Enjoy your personal journey and your business success.
There is a direct correlation between the clarity of vision and the success of a business. What more can I say? How can I convince you? As a Business Intuitive I can tell within one minute of talking to a business owner how successful they are and will be. Successful business owners and professionals have a VERY clear vision without doubt or uncertainty. They hold that vision in their minds eye.
I can see that vision intuitively. Others also see it perhaps unconsciously and react to what they perceive exactly as the owner sees it. If the business vision is unclear or uncertain then others sense that and react accordingly. When a business has a strong and clear vision that is also sensed and we react to their product or service with great expectation.
It begins with you, the professional or business owner. As a business intuitive in practice for over 28 years I have one simple though not easy recommendation. Meditate! Meditate to find that clear vision and focus. I know the technique below is simple. I also know it is not easy because most business owners don’t do it which explains the success rate of businesses.
People most often say, “I am too busy to meditate.” My response is, “If you take the time to meditate on your vision you won’t have to work so hard.” You can create in two ways. You can work really really hard and you may or may not be successful or you can take the time to have a clear vision (and work hard if you enjoy this) to create your success.
Try this Intuitive Exercise and Meditation and see what happens.
The clearer your vision the more successful you become. Meditate first thing before you begin your day. Take the time that you need for each these steps. It will make all the difference.
• Have a comfortable quiet place to sit down
• Close your eyes. Take a deep breath and release.
• Bring your attention and awareness into present time by focusing on yourself,
• Take a deep breath and release and let go of the thoughts and energy you are holding from yesterday or the day before.
• Bring into focus a clear vision of your day, your week, etc. Use your imagination not your logic.
• Let go of the demand energy or to do list.
• Set your energy and your space to the vibration you want to be for the day.
This takes 10 minutes to an hour. It varies on how clear your space is and how focused you are. Let me know your questions or comments about this modified meditation.
This is not only good for your body and soul it is good for your business and professional success.
Just the other day I had an interesting experience with someone selling me advertising time. I want to begin by saying that I WANTED to buy what he was selling but he wouldn’t let me. Let me tell you this very common story.
Fred called just when I was running out the door to an appointment. He wanted my company to buy radio-advertising time. It was an interesting campaign that married my company to one of my favorite charities. I was sold! The price was right. The cause was right and my company could show support for something I value. Win. Win. Win. Only one problem –Fred.
Let me describe what I saw as a business intuitive when I interacted with Fred. Everyone is intuitive including our potential customers so I am sure everyone he called that morning had the same experienced though they may not have been conscious of it.
When Fred called it was clear that I was the one hundredth person he had called in the last 10 minutes. He spoke fast. He was not communicating with me. I was just there to listen to his pitch. Because I wanted what he was selling I tried to engage him in a real communication. He was in the energy of giving his pitch, waiting for a yes or no and moving on. I felt that. I saw that. Most people would have been turned off by this and never really “heard” about his offer.
But let’s take it further because I did want to buy what he was selling. I was on the way out the door so I asked Fred to email me the information, contract, schedule for ads, etc. His energy immediately changed to “She is not going to buy this ad time.” He was done with me. Politely he took my email address and hung up. In the end he did not email me the information. He lost a sale and I lost a good advertising option.
In this situation, Fred was putting out the energy and the pictures of failure. He was going through the motions but his thoughts (“pictures” in his aura) were like neon signs to anyone he called, “I don’t expect you to buy what I am selling.” The potential client “sees” these pictures intuitively but maybe not consciously. Fred’s energy and his pictures create an unconscious and automatic reaction in the space (aura) of the person he is talking to, “I’m not buying what you are selling.” This happens all the time! We sabotage our own sales!
Let me give you an intuitive exercise you can use so that you increase your sales rather than sabotage your sales. After you do this exercise look intuitively at the people who do sales for you. Notice the pictures they have in their aura that supports or interferes with their sales.
Intuitive Exercise: To be done before you make a call, meet with a potential customer, etc.
Take the time to stop. Sit down in a quiet place if possible. Take a deep breath and relax. Begin to quiet your space. Imagine calling back all your energy, attention and awareness from everywhere – last week, this morning’s meeting, tomorrow’s trip, etc. Bring your attention into present time, the present moment.
When you feel quiet and present bring your attention into the center of your head and behind your eyes. Notice yourself. How are you doing? What will the person you talk to experience from you? The rush of your day? Your resistance to making this contact? The disappointment of your last contact? Begin to change your space. Be conscious and aware of how you want your customer to experience you intuitively. If you had a fight with someone, clear that and any other energy that is “hanging” in your space (aura). You know what you are going to say but what are they going to experience intuitively from you.
Begin to imagine and see in your minds eye (your eyes closed) the sales call or meeting you are about to conduct. Notice your thoughts about this. Begin to release or let go of any competing thoughts, ideas, emotions, etc. Let go of any past time experiences that interfere with you imagining or seeing successful contacts.
Do not make a call or meet with potential clients until YOU can see clearly the possibility of making the sale. Your clients or customers are intuitive. They will pick up on any doubt or thoughts that you have. Make sure they are picking up on thoughts that support a sale versus thoughts that would sabotage your sale.
When you have set your space (aura) the way you want your customer to experience you and you can see a successful sale in your minds eye exactly as you would like it to happen then you are ready to meet with your potential customer.
There are more intuitive steps but this is a good start. Have a great day and let me know how your sales go!
Happy New Year everyone! This is a really good time to stop and take a look at our business. What worked? What failed? List our successes. Acknowledge ideas that just did not create the benefit we wanted. This reflection is standard business practice. I whole heartedly support this reflection and suggest that we write it all down!
As an intuitive I am also aware that everything we create manifests from within us. Our businesses do not manifest as a result of something separate from ourselves. If this sounds a bit obscure it’s because we are not used to thinking or being aware in this way.
Add an intuitive look to your review of your business. When we create change within it will reflect on our business. At a deep level our reality is a reflection of our inner selves so let’s start there to grow our business.
With this in mind our successes and our failures are really no mystery. You can see this for yourself using the following exercise.
Intuitive Exercise: Take the time to sit quietly. Write down your successes and failures for 2008. Write down the things you are proud or grateful for and those that were disappointments.
Quiet yourself. Maybe close your eyes. Take a deep breath and go within. Stop thinking. Open to your intuition. Allow yourself to imagine or see in your minds eye.
Now ask yourself for an intuitive answer to any of the items that you wrote down. Do not think. Listen intuitively. See in your minds eye. Notice your very first thought and only your first thought. What you hear, see or know does not have to make sense. It is important that you not think but allow yourself to be open to your intuition.
Once you get an answer reflect on this. Notice how it created or caused the outcome you experienced. Do not think, analyze or explain it. Just know it.
You may find thoughts that do not help you get your goals. For example, you wanted to increase your sales by 10% for 2008 and they stayed flat. When you looked intuitively you felt all the demands on your space, family, friends, outside commitments, etc. So now you know that despite great plans to increase sales they did not increase because of other demands on your space that grabbed your attention and I suspect – your energy.
Another example, you just cannot get over the fact that you did not get the big contract you worked so hard for. Intuitively you saw the energy of your assistant. Without being logical you can see that she was not in agreement with this new contract because it would change a routine that she was comfortable in. Yes others energy does affect our business.
This can be a fun and enlightening exercise. Take some time to do this and you will be in a whole new space for 2009 and so will your business.
I am amazed at how many business owners and professionals give little regard to creating their success. Yes indeed. We think we are working to create our success but is that the case? When we get up and get busy we may get a lot done or not. Being busy, having a lot to do has little to do with the success. Being busy is simply being busy.
Our success is created each day by the vision we have of our success and having that clearly in our minds eye before we begin each day. In this way we can see how to spend our day and to move toward this vision. Doing this for each activity planned for the day moves us toward our goals. What is my vision of success and how can I set this meeting, phone call, project to accomplish my goals? This is a way of being conscious and aware of our ability to create our reality rather than just go through whatever reality we are in.
I attended a Board Meeting last night. Fortunately I had time before the meeting to take the time to meditate on the meeting, what was my goal or vision for participating in this meeting, how can attending this meeting help me in my business and what was my goalas a Board Member supporting this business organization. I was ready. When I got to the meeting I noticed intuitively that a couple other board members had also taken the time to focus their energy and create their vision and goals for this meeting. They were ready. That felt good to me as a participant. Several others had not. They were distracted, unfocused and not on the same page. I noticed that the meeting went well for me because my goal did not depend on others. It was my vision and it manifested.
An Aboriginal tribe believes in song lines. They believe that the world does not exist and that we create it with our song. So before they get up each morning they sing their song to create their day. They believe that if you get up, do not sing your song and the world still exists then you are in someone else’s song.
The power of a clear vision is unmistakable. Clear vision is not thinking. It is seeing intuitively, in your minds eye in the same way you imagine something. Take the time today or right now to try the following exercise.
Intuitive Exercise: Take a few minutes to sit quietly. Perhaps close your eyes. Take a deep breath and relax. Collect up your attention and your awareness so that you are present. Bring into your awareness your vision of your company, your day, the next meeting or whatever you would like to visualize. Start to image or see in your minds eye the activity exactly as you would like to image it happening. See it out in front of you. Don’t think. See. Imagine. Keep seeing until you can imagine it happening exactly as you would like. You may have to let go of competing thoughts or energies. Deep breathe. Release. If you cannot see it then it can not manifest. Repeat this exercise as often as necessary until you have a clear vision.
Do this each day. Do this before an important meeting, phone call, etc.
Share your stories about the outcomes of visualizing.
Sarah (not her real name) is changing her professional life so she contacted me for an intuitive perspective on her new business ideas. First she had the time, desire and the resources to start a new business. Her only decision was “What should I create next?” Sarah is a very creative woman who has been able to create successfully thus far so why the uncertainty now?
As we spoke she outlined three business options she was considering. All were excellent ideas. I watched her intuitively as she spoke and the energy of each of the businesses she presented looked flat. What was making her consider these options? Others good ideas? Maybe they were good strategic business moves but the energy as she considered them did not spark a creative vibration in her and, therefore, would not create success. A simple intuitive principle to business success is knowing what energy a business vibrates in you. It is simple to create a business but to sustain it in a successful way it has to engage our creativity, enthusiasm and/or passion. I did not see any of these vibrations in the options Sarah presented that day.
As I “looked” at her I saw her passion for dancing so I asked her to tell me about dancing. Her energy changed. Sarah began to describe in great detail her life’s dream is to own a dance studio. She went on at length telling the vision she has always had and how she imagined this studio. I wondered why she was considering other business ideas that clearly did not spark this kind of enthusiasm in her.
If you are going to create a business why not create the business of your dreams? It will be no more or less a challenge than other business ideas. I could see her fear. She could not imagine creating her dream. Somehow she did not see this as possible.
So as you might expect we ended this consultation with her committing to exploring the dance studio as her new business venture and fulfilling a life long dream! It would mean that she would not only create a business plan but spend time imagining or visualizing this business. In the end, no matter how passionate you are, if you cannot imagine something then it will not manifest!
I will let you know how she does as you pursues her dream and releases her fears.