Havingness Now!

As business owners and professionals we all know what we want.  Some even have a vision of their success. Finally a few show Havingness for their vision.

What is

Havingness is an intuitive concept that describes an energy level.   Let me give you an example.   I want to create a successful business.  Notice the term “I want”.  Wanting does not create anything.  In fact, it is a flat out statement that you do NOT HAVE.  Thus you are “wanting”.     There are others who have a clear vision of their success.   They know and see intuitively creating success.  This is an important step but it is not enough.  To actually manifest your vision you need HAVINGNESS, the energy level of enthusiasm and certainty about your ability to manifest your vision!

Havingness and Non-Havingness

“I want to create a successful business.”   It won’t happen.   “I see my business success.  I see exactly how it will be created.”  This is a really essential step toward success!   “But I don’t believe it can happen.” This is non-havingness and it just replaced your vision of success.   Let’s replace that last statement with, “I don’t have all the answers but I am certain of my vision of a successful business.”  That is HAVINGNESS.

An Energy Level

Havingness is an energy level you create when you know what you want, have a strong vision of it and are enthusiastic about the possibility.   Havingness is a high energy level.  Non-havingness is a low vibration.    High energy levels are creative.  Low energy levels are not.

Your Energy Level?

We have the ability to set our energy level and our business to the vibration of havingness.  Simply go into meditation and open to your awareness.  Notice where you are now.   Are you in the vibration of havingness or non-havingness?  You will recognize it.  Havingness is the vibration of all things possible!

Take the time to clear your thinking, to release concepts or emotions that are in the way of your success.

Contact me if you would like an intuitive consultation or healing on your Havingness!


Best wishes for your success!



4 thoughts on “Havingness Now!

  1. Hello Kay,
    Thanks for your blogs. They are inspirational and help me to reset my space. I see it is important to validate one’s havingness as well as honoring your own vision of havingness.
    Have a great trip!


  2. Hello Sandy,

    Thank you for you comment. It is an important one. Each of us has our own vision of success and vision of havingness. This can be hard to find with the media bombarding us with their version of what we should want and have.

    Best wishes on your success,



  3. Hi Kay, what does one do if their “havingness” has been so damaged, they literally canNot raise their vibration enough to believe in anything good happening to them no matter how hard they try? Especially in abuse case, if someone has been invalidated by someone they love and trusted and it continued for a long time. This happened to me. I am 2 years out but my “havingness” ,confidence and the rest, are no better than before I lfet, sometimes even worse because of that fact. I thought I would be better by now, but I am not. None of my intentions None of them came through and even their opposites started happening many years ago, the frustration and sense of wanting is so powerful it overwhelms everything else and is exhausting to say the least.


  4. Dear Carole, I am sorry to hear of the invalidation you have experienced. My best counsel is to begin in a very simple way. Begin by being focused in the moment. Bring all of your attention and awareness into present time. Become as aware as you possible can of yourself in the moment. This may be difficult at first but the more you are aware of what is happening and what you are experiencing in reality in the present moment the more you can create change. Coming into the moment also means bringing your attention our of your thinking, your thoughts, etc. Be present and know this moment. This is the first step. Best wishes, Kay


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